You spend hours tossing and turning in bed. Or maybe you fall asleep quickly, then lie awake for hours in the middle of the night. You finally drift off at 5:30 a.m., only to awaken to your alarm clock 45 minutes later.
How can something as simple as sleep be so complicated — and frustrating?
Insomnia — a sleep disorder that makes it hard to fall or stay asleep — is common in adults. If you’re a woman who is approaching menopause or already experiencing “the change of life,” chances are you’re all too familiar with this condition.
Up to six in 10 women in menopause experience insomnia. Hormonal changes are the main culprit, but other factors can also contribute. Whatever the cause, insomnia can take a toll physically and emotionally. But you don’t just have to lie down and take it. Let’s look at what can cause insomnia and how you can combat it.
Hormonal changes are the main cause of insomnia during menopause. Estrogen and progesterone levels decline during this time in a woman’s life. Both hormones play a role in your ability to get quality sleep.
Other common menopause symptoms can interfere with sleep, including hot flashes and night sweats. Anxiety and depression, which may increase during menopause, can also make sleep a challenge.
Menopause isn’t the only possible explanation for your insomnia. Medication for blood pressure, depression, asthma, headache and other conditions can have side effects that affect sleep, too. For example, some antidepressants cause fatigue, while some decongestants can make it hard to fall asleep.
At St. Elizabeth Women’s Health, specialized providers have completed advanced menopause‑focused clinical certification through The Menopause Society, demonstrating additional training in evidence‑based menopause care. This training helps inform conversations around common midlife concerns — such as sleep disruption — while continuing to support women across a wide range of ages and health needs.
If you are in menopause and struggling with poor sleep quality, the best place to start is by making sure your daily routine is sleep-friendly. For example:
Consider other non-medication options, including:
Good sleep hygiene and natural remedies don’t always work. Your doctor can be a good resource if you are ready to consider alternatives. If appropriate, they may prescribe:
Over-the-counter or prescription sleep aids may help as well. These can cause side effects, though, and long-term use isn’t typically a good idea. Your doctor can discuss the options and help you decide what’s best for you.
While menopause is a significant contributor to sleep disturbances, other underlying health problems may also be to blame. Sleep apnea is a biggie.
Sleep apnea causes people to repeatedly stop breathing during sleep. People with this condition may sleep for eight hours straight but do not awaken feeling rested.
“We don’t talk about it a lot, but as you get into your 40s and 50s, the rates of sleep apnea go up in women,” says Abby Loftus-Smith, MD, a St. Elizabeth Obstetrician-Gynecologist. “We all think of sleep apnea as something that affects patients who are overweight, but the data for that is changing. You can have a healthy body weight and sleep apnea at the same time.”
If your doctor thinks you may have sleep apnea, they may recommend a sleep study to learn more. Treatment options include continuous positive airway pressure (CPAP) or surgery, which can dramatically improve your quality of life.
Poor sleep has a way of making us feel frustrated and weary. But sweet slumber may not be as far away as you think. If lifestyle changes don’t help, talk to your doctor.
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Medically reviewed by Abby Loftus-Smith, MD, on 2/4/2026.